I'm lucky
in that I'm a "can do" type of gal, and finding love was a challenge I wanted to meet. I
wanted real love in my life. These are some tips to begin your every own love
journey today.
Step one: commit to wanting love in your life,
really commit to it.
Step two: trust that you are loving and loveable, that you have something special to
offer in a relationship.
Step Three: Leave the past behind, yes its easier said than done, but forgive and move on.
You can NEVER bring a new love into your life if you are caught up in a past relationship.
Step Four: decide
what you want in a "mate", what kind of character and qualities this person must
have. If all you can think of is they need to be rich, handsome tall etc, you
really need to take a deep, hard look at yourself. Love is magical and we can
miss it if we are only looking for a certain type of man. You need to be open and trusting, look for a
man with a really big heart, capacity to love you, a man who makes you feel
great just by being in his company.
Step Five: be vulnerable.... what??? I hear you say, yes be open to love. Being vulnerable is
actually being strong; remember Julia Roberts character in Notting Hill “I’m
just a girl, standing in front of a boy asking him to love me” now that’s
capacity to love. Truth and honesty go
along way, but you do need to be in a relationship for between 3/ 6 months
before there’s any talk about love. Otherwise you look like a desperate nut
job, not attractive.
Step Six: get your VA VA Voom On.
It means be
the best you can be, be as sexy, confident, relaxed in your body and life as
you can be. Remember men love us because we are women, learn to act and respond
to the attentions of men, smile, and enjoy life. Have fun.
I teach all
of this and so much more, I believe there is someone
special for every one, and it’s my mission in life to help women find and keep
the best love of their lives because we all just want to be loved.
Love
Siobhan
